Oral Sex Myths and Misconceptions   by Jon Gammon

There are a number of oral sex myths and misconceptions, some more wrong than others. The point of the matter is, women have been performing oral sex on their partners for centuries, and more women than you think are doing it. It is said that almost 75% of partnered women perform oral sex on their significant others. So what`s all the fuss about anyway? So why aren`t more women performing oral sex on their partners here is a short list of some of the most interesting reasons why women don`t do it.
Women think that oral sex isn`t natural. How could this pleasurable, most enjoyable, form of foreplay not be natural? I do believe that more women love it when their partners go down on them, and I believe that most prefer that over intercourse. So why not return the favor, men love it, most women love it, so don`t call in unnatural because you are afraid, enjoy your bodies and let nature be the natural form of expression.

I get this a lot! I don`t know how! Well little lady, practice, practice, practice. Communicate with your partner; ask him if what you are doing feels good, and if he likes it. If he does continue doing so, and then change it up again and try something else. There is no right and wrong here. What ever makes your partner feel good, it is what you should be doing. Besides it is his time to feel good, you will get yours in return.

What if his penis isn`t clean? Well the penis is just skin, and skin can be cleaned. Take a nice bath together and offer to clean your partner’s body. This is a great prelude to lovemaking, and is a great foreplay starter. Taking a bath together can really get you in the mood, and bathing your partner is a complete turn on. Besides most men take care of their bodies and bathe every day.

What if he expects me to swallow? Women are truly concerned about the taste of semen and if it is dangerous if congested. Well semen is made up of vitamins, minerals, salt, sugar, and acids. It isn`t harmful if swallowed, and some women actually like the taste of semen. Besides, you don`t have to swallow if you don`t want to, just let it run back down the shaft of his penis and let him clean up. Getting him to the point of ejaculation should have been the fun part, whether or not he wants to cum in your mouth is inconsequential. Don`t if you don`t want to, do if you do. I don`t think he is going to hold it against you.

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Jon Gammon is the author and webmaster at Sex Toy Alley, visit the website and view other relevant information on the wonderful world of sex.